Oh, yes, speaking of Bess, I finally know what it's like. I went on the computers at my friend's middle school, and it has Bess. That is one messed up program! Do your parents use the computer? Because if they do, look through their files. They may have put the admin pw somewhere so they don't forget it. And, have you ever tried to get some hacker friends, and have them send Bess a virus? It just may work...
There are some places where a lot of hackers hang out. My brother goes to those sites. Lemme check if they still are there.
Ok, I found Otaku Haven. All you need to know to make friends there is to like/or pretend you like anime. (Japanese animation) Lots of hackers there. Befriend some. They'll help ya out, I think. Have fun!
PS: If Bess blocks that, I have no clue of any other hacker sites.